How To Get Girls

If you’re like a lot of guys just starting out, your primary concern when thinking of approaching a woman is: “What the fuck do I say?” I’m going to give you a few ideas about how to get a conversation started with a girl in a way that will get her attention. Come with me as I explore the mysteries of… The Dental Floss Opener.

“Yo! Real quick! I was having an argument with my friend – do you think you should floss your teeth before or after you brush?”

Then, whatever she says, you can say “That’s exactly what I said!” and give her a high five. Be gentle. Or you say “But if you brush afterward, that means you’re going to push the gunk back between your teeth!”

Don’t talk about it for too long – change the conversation after a couple of minutes. Say “You guys seem cool. Are you tourists?” or “How do you guys know each other?” or start telling a story about your day.

There are a few key points here to make this work for you. Firstly, remember to smile. You’re a fun, happy guy and you’re having a good time. Secondly, speak loudly. It gets attention and shows you’re not afraid to stand out. Lastly, when you get further into the conversation, don’t feel like you have to say anything amazing to the girl. Don’t feel as if you have to try to impress her. She’s a person just a like you, and she’s a female so she probably likes to socialise even more than you do.

So why does this opener work to get a conversation started? Quite simply. You’re asking a question to get information, so it’s very unintrusive. You said it loudly, with enthusiasm, which got their attention. And you put them on the spot (just a little) by saying “Real quick!”

Now you have a few ideas on what to say to a girl. This is an icebreaker that has been proven many times by myself and others, so take these words and take action!