How To Get Girls

If you’re like a lot of guys just starting out, your primary concern when thinking of approaching a woman is: “What the fuck do I say?” I’m going to give you a few ideas about how to get a conversation started with a girl in a way that will get her attention. Come with me as I explore the mysteries of… The Dental Floss Opener.

“Yo! Real quick! I was having an argument with my friend – do you think you should floss your teeth before or after you brush?”

Then, whatever she says, you can say “That’s exactly what I said!” and give her a high five. Be gentle. Or you say “But if you brush afterward, that means you’re going to push the gunk back between your teeth!”

Don’t talk about it for too long – change the conversation after a couple of minutes. Say “You guys seem cool. Are you tourists?” or “How do you guys know each other?” or start telling a story about your day.

There are a few key points here to make this work for you. Firstly, remember to smile. You’re a fun, happy guy and you’re having a good time. Secondly, speak loudly. It gets attention and shows you’re not afraid to stand out. Lastly, when you get further into the conversation, don’t feel like you have to say anything amazing to the girl. Don’t feel as if you have to try to impress her. She’s a person just a like you, and she’s a female so she probably likes to socialise even more than you do.

So why does this opener work to get a conversation started? Quite simply. You’re asking a question to get information, so it’s very unintrusive. You said it loudly, with enthusiasm, which got their attention. And you put them on the spot (just a little) by saying “Real quick!”

Now you have a few ideas on what to say to a girl. This is an icebreaker that has been proven many times by myself and others, so take these words and take action!

You’ve seen them. Tall, handsome guys with tall, beautiful girlfriends. Perfect white smile, blue eyes and blonde hair. You think to yourself “Goddamnit – if I were blessed with good genetics I could be banging hotties too.” Except you’re not, so you wallow in your self-pity and go home to masturbate with your tears.

Sounds familiar? Let me bring you back to reality.

I remember once, I was in Las Vegas at Spearmint Rhino and saw my wingman, a 40 year old 4’10″ below average looking dude make out with one of the hottest strippers in the club. That’s one example. Look around a little more closely and you’ll notice it’s pretty common for beautiful women to be with ugly or regular looking dudes.

The truth is, some girls care about looks, but most care more about what kind of man you are. Are you a leader? Are you unflappable? Determined? Are you the effect in your world, are are you the cause?

It’s easy for a man to hide and play the victim. Blame your looks, your height, your parents, your bank account. It’s not so easy to look yourself in the mirror and say “This is the man responsible for his success with women.” But once you say that, you’ve just moved a little closer to taking that responsibility – and your world will start to change.

So ask yourself – am I prepared to surrender the possibility of success just because of an old belief or a victim mentality? Or am I going to step up and be a man?

There are women out there waiting for a man – not a good-looking prettyboy, but a man. And those women are desperate. They don’t want some pussy or a child to coddle, but a man who knows who he is and moves with purpose. Can you give that woman what she wants?